Your Partner Hurt You – Again
Another average night. You and your partner are chatting in the kitchen while making dinner.
Then, all of a sudden, they say something that cuts you deeply.
They didn’t realize they’d done it… until they saw the look on your face.
You Go into the Same Old Scripts
They apologize, and you try to explain why you’re so hurt.
But it’s futile.
You’re not entirely sure WHY you feel that way, so you can’t put it into words.
They’re frustrated, angry, and discouraged that you’re “fighting again over nothing.”
No resolution. No closure.
Only a lingering anxiety that you’re speaking different languages and will never understand each other.
You Have a Decision to Make
- Option 1: Do nothing, accept the status quo, and continue down this dissatisfying path.
- Option 2: Give up, cut your losses, and walk away from your relationship for good.
- Option 3: Rip up that tired old script and create a new possibility for the future.
If You’re Ready to Change, I Can Help
Sure, you need to “communicate better” with your partner. But deep down, you know it’s more than that.
How you communicate in a relationship has a lot to do with the patterns of communication you saw between your parents growing up.
Without even realizing it, you inherited a template for how to deal with conflict.
I’ll help you forge a new template so you can flip the script.
- Pinpoint where your communication is breaking down.
- You need to know EXACTLY what’s triggering your pain.
- Determine whose voice you hear when you’re upset.
- It’s not always your own.
- Find out who you’re actually arguing with.
- It’s usually NOT your spouse.
Learning This Stuff Will Save Your Marriage
When you learn HOW to communicate better, you’ll stop the cycle and get back to your loving marriage.
Why is this happening?
Will it get any better?
What can we do?
Act now, and you’ll never ask these questions again.
Call me at (503) 343-4781 to schedule a free 15-minute consultation.
